Frequently Asked Questions

Yes!! I am open to anyone approaching as long as you are 18+, can respect my limits and communicate effectively. Most of my kinks are listed as well as my hard limits. If it is a kink I am unfamiliar with I will look into it before we engage in it. 

I do not use any of these platforms with my subs. 

I have a private messaging application that I use that offers audio/video calls as well as audio/video clips in the messaging section, However you earn the audio/video calls. 

Yes, as long as you're willing to put in the effort and you are 18+. 

I do in person visits with subs who are well established and who have been fully vaccinated, tested negative for covid within 24 hours of the visit and earned the visit. 

I wait until we have discussed thoroughly what my expectations are, what things we need to keep open IF I have to do a complete lock down, and I need to feel comfortable that you can handle that sort of restriction.

My parental controls can be installed on WIndows computers, iPhones and ipads, Android phones and tablets. 

I provide a welcome packet with all of my expectations for you and then if something changes I do update it and pin it in our conversation so you always have access. 

The answer to that question is simple with me you earn everything you get so if you behave as expected and follow rules then you could very well earn it. 

Just because you earn it doesn't mean you get to demand when YOU want to. If I'm not in the mood then that's it don't pester. 

I do not offer discounts, if you cannot afford but one day a week or one week a month that is what you can afford. You can save up for our time together. It is not fair to my established subs or future subs to make an exception for one person. You wouldn't be okay with this if the situations were reversed. 

It depends on the program I have to use for your device and  how many devices you have as well as how closely I need to monitor you. The pricing ranges from $0-$250.  

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At least Once a Week if not more. 

I allow my babies and subs to partake in said kink however i do not want to see it, talk about it or hear anything besides "I went #2 or potty".

See about Mistress section 

Mistress Mary, Miss Mary, Ma'am, Daddy 

You however will NEVER be allowed to address me as "Mary" I take that as a sign of disrespect.  

I am on X, Instagram

X:@Jokercardswild (Main) @mama97mary (Backup 1)  @TheMistressMary (Backup 2)

Instagram: @mama97mary

Absolutely, the safety of my subs is my top priority. 

Uhm no.. Just no.. please seek out a therapist. 

I actively participate in NSFW as well as SFW, I never assume which you'd prefer. COMMUNICATE it to me and I am more than willing to adjust.

Reach out to me, we can discuss the possibility of you returning. If you left on bad terms expect there to be a fee to return. Your behavior dictates the fee.

Mainly Twitter but here works too. 

I accept everyone. Be open about your pronouns and how you like to be addressed.

I accept little girls and purple pokadoted people eaters alike.

Just don't be a dick 

I do have a Wishlist however it is NOT a payment method.